Playing with Myself

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I'm not a fan of biographies but after binging almost all the videos on Randy's YouTube channel during the pandemic (I became kinda obsessed because they made me feel better and I love the show tunes he uses), I had to read this one. I definitely didn't regret my choice.

My ultimate advice on this point is to try and reach a climax on your own and not with a partner; only you know what feels good, and how much pressure to apply. Once you have learned how to orgasm on your own, you can then help guide a sexual partner in achieving this during sexual activity with them. 14. What to do if you’re bleeding after fingering?I developed a serious Spanking fetish that developed at age 12. As a young adult, I would bring home young, unsuspecting men home for sex and beat them. They didn't say no or stop, but it was still abusive since it was not consensual. PLAYING WITH MYSELF by Randy Rainbow is an entertaining and heartfelt audiobook memoir with the author himself narrating, because who else could do it justice? If you want to laugh and deal with the occasional tissue worthy tears, then this is the memoir for you.

My parents used to threaten me with being spanked for nothing or just because my bottom was too fat. Several times when I was 16 my mother threatened me with being spanked just to get me upset, realizing (as she thought that I hated being spanked) and used that to manipulate me, but those threats were never carried out.I got shamed for crying "Big Boys don't Cry" you know, and told "If you cry I am going to beat you harder". Or I'll give you something to cry about. I know about this intimately. I have had a spanking fetish for 34 years since I was 12, it is very pronounced. I know many people in this world, partly through yahoo groups of which there are many. You can either penetrate your vagina with your fingers whilst holding a vibrator against your clitoris, or you can rub your clitoris whilst inserting a sex toy inside of your vagina. Similarly, you can use toys for your anus such as butt plugs to completely maximize your fingering experience. 12. Masturbate with a partner. You can use your fingers or a sex toy to penetrate your vagina during solo play. You’ll feel the “Big O” deeper in your body, and your vaginal walls will throb.

Concentrate on areas that particularly excite you, but try not to stimulate only the most obvious bits. You're likely to bring yourself to orgasm by stimulating your penis or clitoris, but it will be more arousing, and your climax more satisfying, if you explore as much of your body as possible.TL;DR: I masturbated with a condom-covered hot dog and nearly died. And my whole family found out." 4. Beware of grandmothers Let your mind wander: It may go without saying, but you can turn yourself on by simply thinking about that hottie you met last week. Let your mind fantasize about people or situations that send tingles down your spine. The relationship that we have with ourselves is primary, one that we're going to have for our entire lives. And it's also the most intimate," Kahn says. That is why it is important to consider the broad continuum of what brings us pleasure. Maybe it's a walk on the beach, or a long hot bath. Or maybe it includes connection that's more intimate. Sit in front of a full-length mirror with a big tube of lube. Pour the lube all over your body — your breasts, belly, inner thighs, and vulva — and start sliding your hands over these erogenous zones. Before getting started, it’s good practice to wash your hands and vulva. The same way you would if you were with a partner, it’s always best to go into fingering with good hygiene; mainly to avoid any infections further down the line (especially if using toys). 2. Set the mood.