The 5 Steps to Cuckold Your Husband: A Guide for Beginners

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Others think it’s a psychological defense mechanism to guard against cheating, or a learned response to past unfaithful girlfriends. Her cheating can’t hurt you if you’re getting off on it, right? Ear Piercings – Go ahead and get his ears pierced. Make him wear pretty, feminine earrings when he’s in the house. We've grown up being told that sex should be between two people, not two people and a guy called Brian This isn’t common and I found it was more for couples where the wife wanted to be shared and it was her idea.

Well, I find that the best way is to do it after sex. You are both relaxed and it’s the perfect time to talk about what really floats your boat. Start by getting a drink and asking her who she thinks is hot then you give her a little challenge: Being honest about your desires and sharing that the idea of inviting someone else into your sex life takes some serious courage. You owe it to your partner to hear them out without any judgment. However, other chaps I’ve spoken to were a lot more relaxed, and just saw it as a great way to watch their partner enjoying themselves. The BullBeyond simple storytelling, you could also try sending your partner out on a sex mission, then hearing all the juicy details when they get home. I used to regularly see a few guys for spanking and BDSM, and on a few occasions my boyfriend would sit outside in the car until I was finished, thoroughly beaten and ready to tell him every detail of what happened inside. This option does throw up some ethical questions, such as how much do you tell the third party about what's happening? Personally I'd recommend telling them exactly what's going on – full disclosure saves a world of trouble down the line. And who knows? If you decide to take things further they might be up for joining in. Ask her who she thinks is hot, who she’d take home and play the game snog, marry, one night stand using real people you see. In these scenarios, some research suggests that watching your partner with another man prompts a biological response to have longer and more vigorous sex. This is a great place to start, you’ll be able to feel out if you are emotionally ready for more after seeing your wife kiss a new man. You both need to understand that and make sure your bull knows he is just their to fulfil a fantasy/scenario.

Making the development of trust and emotional defenses inside the partnership your top priority is essential. If you’re in a situation where you sacrifice a physical relationship – not through any desire but just to see your partner happy – then it should be commended, surely? Are you ready? The remedy is communication and honesty. Communicate with your husband or boyfriend and try to understand where he’s coming from and what he’s really after. If you stop and think about it, though, it’s not that weird… and it might even be more loving, selfless, and even romantic than you realize. He wants to watch you. Doesn’t matter if she’s on a private date or blowing some guy in front of you if you mention/text your safe word it stops instantly.Now let me go into a little more detail about each type, to help you work out which one you relate with. Plenty of men find the idea of you enjoying sex with another man an arresting and almost explosive erotic experience. What I like most is the feeling of helplessness. I guess that’s the turn-on, watching my girlfriend being taken by another man in front of me. A girl friend of mine came by the other day to tell me her marriage of 23 years was over, her husband was not happy. Not a new story, they got into a rut and stopped putting in the time it takes for marriage to last. This got me thinking, I have been with my husband for 19 years and how good was our marriage? Was my husband happy?

Clothed Female and Naked Male: This is going to sound a bit odd, but, you want him naked as often as possible, while you remain clothed. ****** nudity is a means of subjugation, and one person’s subjugation is another’s empowerment. ****** nudity produces feelings of humiliation and humiliation is as a tool that serves to emphasize a submissive husband’s sense of being controlled. ****** nudity causes your husband to reveal his private parts to be judged by all and that's a scary thing for all men. Nudity like submission shares an important commonality, exposure. When he is naked and you are not, he is in an exposed, embarrassing position seeking your direction. His entire life he has been told to put cloths on, now his wife is making him take them off. Even if he likes being naked it will become humiliating for him. Use your words and toy with him. If he is soft, say things that get him hard. This will allow him to shift control to you. Clothed women easily dominate and humiliate naked males, one of the many ways the stronger sex has of controlling weaker males. The more often the male is nude, obediently passive, meekly obeying his wife, the more he is reminded of his place. A naked male submissive is a good way to arrange a marriage/relationship, a clear sign that "SHE wears the pants in the house." You will mostly likely find in your area a CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) Party, just google it. At this party the males are naked and the Females are clothed for the entire party. The males are there to serve and entertain the Females. The Females are in charge of the party. They can have the males do whatever makes them happy. The males are not allowed to touch or initiate interaction with the Females without the wife’s permission. When I first heard of this my response was “not in this life time”, but, after doing the research we gave it a try. I WAS WRONG, this was a great training environment. The party was filled with other women that could help me with my husband. Not only was he exposed for all the other women, but the other submissive men. We both learned how the other couples supported the husband’s submissive nature and the wife’s were given respect and control. EVERY wife should try this at least twice. The friends we have made have added much joy in or marriage. Once you have established control you need to expand his submission by taking him to parties, clubs or events where you can expand the “Clothed Female and Naked Male” part of his training. In San Francisco we found the “Power Exchange” and in Las Vegas we found a number of gay bath houses and clubs that we attended. A nude beach is also be fun. He will be naked of course and you should be in your swim suit to emphasize his submissiveness. Ladies: has your boyfriend, fiance, or husband ever talked dirty to you about flirting with other men? I am excited just to write this (hope it’s just as exciting for others to read) and I have to say that I’ve told my wife about your blog and having read a bit of it, has said that she might come and describe how things are going herself and share some thoughts. The goal of asking these questions is so that nothing comes as a surprise. You should know what you’re getting into and everyone should have consented to it prior. Agree on a safe word.Even if they’re not on board, sharing your desires can open the way for other exploration and kink. Have all the information If you want to come at it from a more positive place, you can emphasize your husband’s skill in other areas:

Sure, he say it’s a “threesome” he wants, but that doesn’t always mean he wants to have two girls at once. Remember, each relationship is unique, necessitating open dialogue and adaptability to meet the needs of all participants.Don't use conditions forever. They are just a tool to use in the beginning stages of taming your husband. After a while you will have amassed so much power, there will be no need for them. You can just make him do whatever you want. Once you've reached this point using a condition will actually make you look weaker.