BDSM Submissive Punishments: Guide To Punishing Your Sub Like A Pro BDSM Dom (Includes Submissive Training)

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The main goal of punishments for your sub is so they will learn from it. The Dom disciplines to discourage unacceptable conduct, and to ensure that the sub fully appreciates their role. A sub should always know why they are being punished.

Make the rules for your sub specific. While ‘you have to do everything I say’ might seem like it covers your bases, the more specific the rule, the clearer you will both be on what the expected behaviour is. That will make it a lot easier to know when that behaviour has fallen short of what you expect. Make the offence clear I don’t ever see myself moving away from being in a sub domme relationship,’ he says. ‘I would just like it to be more accepted. I just think that just because I’m a male, that shouldn’t just mean I’m the dominant one. I would just like to think that males can be submissive if they want to. Women can be dominant if they want to as well. As a form of behaviour modification: rules in a D/s dynamic exist for a reason – to outline the expected standard of behaviour. Punishment can serve as a consequence for undesirable behaviour, assisting in modifying it.Fetishists tend to require the object of their attraction at hand to become sexually aroused. 'Kinky sex involves something that you enjoy adding to your experiences, as opposed to a fetish, which suggests you are dependent on that idea/experience for your sexual arousal and enjoyment and cannot experience sexual satisfaction without it,' says Sheppard.

One of the biggest components of BDSM is that the relationship consists of a Dominant and a submissive. This is actually the cornerstone of this lifestyle. A Dominant will take control of the submissive. The extent of control is discussed and agreed upon between the two parties before any play time can happen. Orgasm denial or edging- Either for a minute or a day, to remind a sub that their Dom has the power over their sexual fulfillment.And also, aftercare. Always aftercare. Terms and conditions apply. [Insert the usual ‘please practice BDSM safely’ thing here]. My opinion on funishment BDSM is never abusive. Because of negotiated agreements and safewords, no matter how it looks, BDSM is always friendly, affectionate, and for many players, deeply nurturing.