Prison Nights: Two Straight Lads Discover Friendship, Love and Sex in a British Jail

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The wind was blowing through my helmet, cooling my sweating face, and the sounds of my name dripping from the sweet lips of the few girls in the background calmed my pumping heart, causing me to go faster. He worded it gorgeously and made me realise that one valid aim for those growing up queer is to be just as cringeworthy, embarrassing and boring as the straights (while always retaining a slight edge, I hope).

I myself was known for sleeping around, and I was in an on-and-off relationship, but never considered myself gay. I also had variations of 'I can't believe I'm doing this' running through my head for most of the time, but that just made it better in a strange way. We recently asked straight men of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us about their experiences hooking up with other guys.I told women that I was gay upfront, some of them asked me, and as a gay man who works with a lot of women, we get along wonderfully, we go out together and have drinks and dinner. We pulled up beside my car and he gave a last shot at keeping things going and asked if I just wanted to try holding his dick, and I agreed. Being a lad is a safe haven from all the big, serious issues out there – like emotional involvement and critical thinking.

You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice. A gay-straight male friendship is central to my new Channel 4 series, Big Boys, a sweet-but-silly comedy based on my university years, where I flip the trope of the gay best friend. They are true-life confessions, always erotic in nature, sometimes downright dirty, and occasionally even deviant. A subset of these men who have sex with men, or MSM, live lives that are, in all respects other than their occasional homosexual encounters, quite straight and traditionally masculine — they have wives and families, they embrace various masculine norms, and so on.

I think my strongest memories were of being surprised at how warm his cock was and how strongly I could feel his pulse through it. These men are actually closeted gay or bisexual, but are too afraid of queer labels, and aren’t ready to admit to themselves or others that they actually aren’t straight.

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