Discipline Without Damage: How to Get Your Kids to Behave Without Messing Them Up

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The teen years can be tough but they do not need to be! Learn my top strategies for navigating the teen years. Learn how their brains and developing and how to reach them when they won't open up to you.

I'm Arabella Hille. I am an experienced Parenting Educator qualified in Behavioral Science. I'm also a mother, former teacher, the author of the best-selling Ultimate Guide Parenting series, and Founder of Victorious Parenting. Via my books and programs, I have helped over 70,000 caregivers transform their home lives!These approaches] respond with something that either creates fear in them or isolates them. Because they're so desperate to have the connection restored, they will cease the behaviour. But it's a façade of control. Internally they're still quite unsettled and dysregulated. In the longer term, that can actually leave your child more prone to things like anxiety, depression and attention challenges. You will also discover the link between praise and motivation. In this chapter, I illustrate the concepts with examples and exercises that you can use today! Discover the characteristics of children who have low self-esteem. This chapter is an in-depth look at what constitutes as low-self esteem with practical strategies to help your child overcome it. The retort: Kids need to know who is in charge – and like hell I’m gonna let them believe they are in charge. My kid is going to know who is boss. Period.

This guide will help you across your child's whole childhood. It provides respectful solutions to both you and your child without the need for yelling or punishing so that your love and growth will have a domino effect on all that witness it. Whatever the cause, we got lost. We, as a dominant culture, are in a time of generally and utterly misunderstanding the needs of children, the form of child development, and the way this must play out in our leadership role as parents for our children to have a fulfilling shot at this thing called life. Of course, there are those that walk amongst the masses who have worked to maintain a conscious awareness and/or an intuitive understanding of children. But collectively, we don’t get it. So that you can have more positive energy to give to your child and to the other loved ones in your life (including yourself).No. This offends me so much and I think it is quite contradictory coming from a professional who claims to be advocating AVOIDING making children feel shame or guilt. The argument makes no sense-- one is supposed to raise a child to not feel shame or guilt but one is supposed to feel guilty over parenting mistakes? Anyone who has tried to make a life change (losing weight, addiction, etc) knows that guilt doesn't work as a long term motivator. If you want to be a better parent, work on yourself because you want to feel better and you want to improve your family life and enjoy life more. If one has guilt it is because one hasn't forgiven oneself and that's an unhealthy way to live.