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While silicone lube is usually better for butt stuff than water-based lubes, you can’t use silicone lubes with silicone anal beads (which is what the majority of anal beads are made of), as it can degrade the material. Sinclair says to insert and remove the smallest bead a couple times to warm up before moving onto a larger bead.
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Silicone anal beads can have more “give” to them and offer more flexibility than glass or steel anal beads. At the first signs of orgasm, start pulling the beads out one-by-one with a deliberate, consistent, and not-too-slow motion, says Winnick. Glass anal beads offer more rigidity and are temperature-sensi, meaning they can heat up with your body.
Sinclair also recommends using a condom if the toy is made of a hazardous, porous material like jelly, to create a protective barrier. Or, you can use a glass or steel toy — two materials that also allow for temperature play opportunities too. Since you’ll need a lot of lube (your anus doesn’t self-lubricate), silicone lubes that are thicker and don’t dry out as quickly as water-based lubes are worth it. Harris also suggests investing in an automatic lube dispenser, or filling a disposable dixie cup with the lube you’ll need for each session ahead of time, and then disposing of it afterwards.
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An easy way to remember this is to just keep in mind that anal beads tend to be longer, while plugs are, like their name, shorter and y'know, plug-like. Sinclair says you can try taking them out as you near climax for a whole new different take on orgasms, or use anal beads as a warm up before sex. The sensation of removal from the vagina can also feel pleasurable to vulva-havers, but you should never mix and match beads for the butt with beads you use in the vagina for bacterial reasons. Sometimes each bead gradually increases in size going up the string, and sometimes the beads are all the same size. Since the removal of anal beads is what makes them so pleasurable, try to time the removal of the beads to sync up with you or your partner’s orgasm.Yes, a basic anal bead is great, but I didn’t know joy until I found a vibrating anal bead,” adds Chester. Seriously, anal beads are not super expensive and the cost of a trip to your doctor’s office is gonna be way more. If you do try it with a partner, make sure everyone has discussed it beforehand and that both of you are comfortable. Gently rubbing and massaging with the beads here can help you or a partner get used to the sensation.