Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets to Get the Guy, Keep Him Interested, and Prevent Dead-End Relationships (Smart Dating Books for Women)

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In general, no woman wants to chase a man. And I’m not saying you should chase a man, because you shouldn’t.

Don’t stop doing the things you love because of a guy who doesn’t love you. Instead, stop obsessing over him and do whatever it is that makes you happy.You’re not necessarily testing him here, but you are giving him the opportunity to show that he’s just as interested too. It’s a good thing!

All that said, I am also very much a traditionalist when it comes to dating. I don’t need to be doggedly pursued, but I do prefer that the man make the first move. I prefer that the man be the initiator of at least the first date. Because I view dating as dance, I prefer the guy take the lead; not all the time, but the majority of the time, especially in the early stages of dating. I’m not afraid to ask a man out, and I’ve been known to do it, but it’s not my preference. Why? Because I’ve never had good results when I’ve been in a dating situation where I was the primary instigator. Usually when I’m the primary instigator, it’s a pretty clear sign that he’s just not that into me. I don’t know about you, but I’ve never known a man who didn’t go after something he REALLY wanted. (Maybe you feel differently, and that’s totally cool!) We’d be half-dead, boring robots. Feminine women are initiators in their own way, just as much as men are. If you’re tired of being rejected, women pulling away, having so much to offer, and not knowing why you’re single, make sure you watch my free masterclass . I explain this more in this video (How To Reattract Her When She Loses Interest) , so make sure you watch that to learn more. But I’m going to briefly sum up here.And let’s say – best case scenario in your head – you secure him… You bag the man you want! Once things start to settle down, self-doubt is going to set in. You think true happiness is going to come from someone else and right now – in the heart of your pursuit – you only have one man on your mind to give it to you. So why does chasing a girl not work? When one person is chasing the other, then the other is running away from them, right? That’s not any kind of a relationship.