Crossdreaming: A Femboy’s Dreams Come True? (Femboy to Gorgeous Girl)

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Secretly, however, I believe that most ‘prosthetic crossdressers’ (ugh, what an ugly name for them!) actually believe the ‘natural crossdressers’ are right. Ideally, they would love to get rid of the prosthetics and go natural — but still be able to go for a passable illusion. Ya know, in some ways I know my mind is still male. On the other hand, due to much study in gender psychology, I know in many ways that my mind is wired very much female. I can point to many examples that I've discovered that the way I am is very much in step with the way women traditionally are. I am not a doctor not a psychologist but I love to research a lot on my "condition". I can also say with conviction that my father has a lot of symptoms of high functioning Asperger and my grandmother too had some of them. I think that it has been handed down to me and the three of us differ a lot in someways and are similar in many ways. However I know that my father is not a crossdreamer/crossdresser so it will be interesting to know your opinion as to how the genes mutated to give me this personality. I think a lot of crossdreamers wonder about whether there is a connection between Asperger and crossdreaming, and it would be useful to get that discussion out in the open. For many, reaching climax is the end of their cross gender experience. They have no desire to cross gender in any context other than a sexual one. Furthermore, they may be embarrassed about their sexuality. Therefore, they prefer to think of it as a fetish with no deeper ramifications for their psyche.

We know from psychology that obsessive behaviour can be caused by a wide variety of factors beyond Aspeberger, especially if social and/or sexual repression is involved. And in the case of crossdreaming there is always some degree of repression. I do not recognize myself in such a description, unless you define the crossdreaming itself as an "abnormally intense or focused behavior or interest."In other words: this is something we have to decide on our own, learning from others like us in the process. Note that crossdreaming is not limited to one "biological sex" or sexual orientation. You find crossdreamers in all parts of society. Gender dysphoric and gender euphoric

Seeing a beautiful woman in the street and wanting to be her because you find her aesthetically or sexually attractive is not transexuality. It is cross-gender fantasy in a person with a primarily male gender identity (as your article suggests).Searching is often a frustrating and fruitless search so I believe the key is to focus on your own internal happiness and if that ends up attracting a romantic partner then its a bonus. There are after all bisexual women out there but weeding them out can draw lots of energy from living your life in a productive manner. I have tried on many suits in my life. The experience is mind-numbingly boring. But I don’t have gender dysphoria and I don’t “loathe every second of the experience because of what it represents”. It doesn’t represent anything to me, it’s just a chore. If you find that Anne Lawrence’s book describes your condition, by all means allow yourself to be guided by it. Most TG people don’t find it useful, and that isn’t because they’re in denial about autogynephilia. It’s because they don’t have a male gender identity and experience strong cross-gender feelings in a whole range of situations that aren’t sexual, and have typically done so for a very long time. If you wait until the researchers have made up their mind before deciding, you will have to wait long. They know far too little about what is causing this, and there is no concensus. A crossdreamer is a person who gains sexual, emotional and psychic satisfaction from cross gender ideas or behaviour.

I realized that it was a much broader term than “autogynephilia”) which only covers people assigned male at birth who are attracted to women). I have learned to know MTF crossdreamers who love men as well as many FTM crossdreamers who love men. Now that you are comfortable shopping for women’s clothes and publicly wearing female versions of what you already wear, you are ready for the next big step. This is wearing women’s versions of what you already wear. These are items that look almost like wearing men’s clothes, but are slightly different. As I learn more about myself, I feel sad that sometimes people find it difficult to understand my behavior, which may get a little variable and which makes me an unpredictable person.Even my crossdressing/dreaming also waxes and wanes. Most of the time I cannot stop myself from for example having mood swings. I can talk whole day ;)Many of those crossdreamers never ‘dream’ (pun intended!) to go beyond a literary pseudonym or a virtual online presence. They will appease their urges and desires that way, and be more than content with it (again, I happen to know many who are exactly like that). However, a few will wish to express their ‘inner woman’ in a more physical way, and yes, that means crossdressing. As I walked the streets of New York on Friday, I was doing what most biological men do as they walk around the city: admiring the architecture and admiring the women. However, my feelings with respect to these women were different to other men. There are five stages in the development of crossgender sexuality. Some people never go past stage 2.