Shots Spreader Bar with Cuffs

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In any tie, but particularly with ties involving the wrists, it’s important to make sure you have plenty of wiggle room between the skin and the rope, and that the tie can’t tighten down on itself," she says. "A tie that does this is both uncomfortable and unsafe and can potentially cause loss of circulation or nerve damage."

If your bar is metal, you can use a damp cloth and antibacterial soap to clean it. For fabric, use water and fabric cleaner.

You're likely to injury your partner's ankles, knees, or hips and then playtime is over. Use the bar to restrain, manipulate and position your sub, but not to fling them around.

Now you have all of the necessary safety under your belt. Let's get into the hot stuff you came here for - all of the erotic ways you can use a spreader bar in the bedroom. The Basic Y Position

So, be sure and ask your partner, from time to time, if they are alright and if they need to take a break.

Non-adjustable bars with 4 mounting points for both the ankles and wrists. Some with removeable cuffs, some with static.It also has a reasonably widespread (and is adjustable), so if you already have shorter bars, this would be a good addition to amp things up. It’s adjustable meaning your legs’ will be separated at various lengths ranging from between 29.5-38 inches. By suspending the spreader bar from any sturdy overhead point, you instantly have a simple way to restrain the wrists above the head. Not only can this feel very vulnerable since it leaves the entire body on display (with no way to "cover up". Since limbs are mostly out of the way, almost all sex activities can be done during the Vertical X Position - which is part of why it has such a large following in kink communities. I submit to you the 19 best spreader bar positions to spice up your sex life and add an erotic punch to BDSM play. If you apply a maximal force you can definitely break it as it’s not really meant for a hardcore BDSM play.

Generally speaking, they are made of a solid rod that is usually carbon fiber, metal, or wood and are covered with a softer material such as PU leather, nylon or leather if the rod is abrasive to the skin. Metal spreader bars are the most popular due to their durability. Some of them are a fixed length while others are adjustable and can range in length between 12 inches to 36 inches. On each end are ankle cuffs so that you can attach them to your submissive's ankles and keep their legs from closing during intense orgasms. The cuffs are sometimes built into the bar. When they're not, you can customize and use your own. Most cuffs are made of Velcro, PU leather, or leather. Therefore, once the play ends, either by choice or by someone using a safe word, it’s critical that you take time to rest, relax and decompress. That is where after care come into play. You might see the quality of the cuffs and be disappointed. That there is no option to restrain both legs and hands, BUT…

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Also keep things in your first aid kit to dress any small cuts or abrasions, as well as cream to soothe any chafing that may occur from the wrist or ankle cuffs. The Best Spreader Bar Positions for a Smoking Hot Sex Life The bar itself is made from a heavy-weight metal that is so well made that it won’t budge no matter how hard you try. Then watch out for plastic connectors and Carabiner clips as those are very fragile. You can always upgrade to metal Carabiner clips. But you need a strong O ring for cuffs and the bar like these on Lovehoney.