How to share your wife with other men without destroying your marriage: The open-minded adult’s guide to successful cuckolding

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To make sure we were both in agreement about this and that there weren’t any negative emotions around the idea of me having sex with someone else, we tried all sorts of simulations. Before we were set to meet our guy, my husband and I went out for drinks. We were both a little nervous – me more than him – and the alcohol helped calm me down and get me even a little turned on. My husband was joking around and making me excited, saying over and over how he couldn’t wait to see how the guy would take me. That helped a lot, knowing that my life partner was there for me during this whole process.

The definition of a dark fantasy, or one that feels taboo or wrong, can differ from person to person. For some people, the thought of double penetration or face slapping counts as dark. For others, it’s the thought of harming someone or being harmed (either with or without consent). Even as experienced swingers, we were grateful to have spent the first few days becoming grounded with just each other, ensuring our communication and bond were solid: this always makes sex with others a more seamless experience.

If you'd like to explore a fantasy with a partner, be open and honest with them.

I can well relate. My wife and I dated for 2 years and the sex was fantastic. We had been married for about a year and had not given a thought about sex with others. The wife of a couple who had recently moved into our apartment complex invited us to dinner.It was a wonderful evening and we ended up swapping. We met on a fairly regular basis and developed a good relationship in and out of bed BUT neither of them would go all the way in front of their spouse. I developed an intense desire to see my wife and him or some man in action. We discussed it. She initiated a mfm with a good friend of ours. It was his first ***** but he was ready. It was the most sexually exciting, indescribable and wonderful night of our lives. Even though I was lying right beside them, they were concentrating on each other and not me. I have never been more excited in my life than watching her motions, twitches. facial expressions and sounds. I couldn't last very long with my first turn. As for him wanting you to be your own person, again. Gem of a man. Doesn't mean he WANTS you, the mother of his kids, his wife, and partner in life to have sex with other men. It’s not easy when you essentially want to have sex with someone else but still remain in your long-term loving relationship. Most people won’t understand that it’s not about cheating. It’s not about your partner not being enough. You don’t need to have this all hammered out before you bring it up. In fact, telling your partner that you don’t know exactly what you want to do with a fantasy is helpful too. Talking these questions through together can be enlightening and can foster intimacy. But thinking about these questions beforehand can help you know yourself and your desires better, at the very least.

Have you found yourself in a situation where your husband wants to share you with another man (also known as wife sharing)? In the opinion of Pairedlife, the traditional marriage face the following challenges- these issues are compared and juxtaposed with wife sharing:

Many people spent today taking it easy, enjoying their time in paradise and resting up for the final day on the ship. Salted and sun-kissed, we returned to the cruise ship in time for erotic games by the pool for the chance to win teeny tiny LLV bikinis. This tool will do just that and pull up any hidden social media and dating profiles, photos, criminal records, and much more to hopefully help put your doubts to rest. ​ 4 Reasons Your Husband Thinks: I Want To Share My Wife 1. Voyeurism

A wife shared, is a wife shared. It was your decision to allow your woman to share an intimacy with another person.In my article what makes a man leave his wife for another woman. I go in details – why mutual consideration of sexual desire can be a leading cause of husbands leaving their wives. I don't feel I forced her to do anything she didn't want to. She had sex with Deb all on her own. She agreed that getting together with my friend was exciting, safe, discreet. She was so aroused during our sessions with him. It was her idea to get together with him the following night and again after we were married. All she had to do was say no. If there was something she wanted to try and I really didn't want to, I'd say no. Her advice to those considering the lifestyle:“For couples who are considering it, we suggest that you better have a really good relationship starting out because it doesn’t fix broken relationships, it only breaks them up faster. Also, you need to have conversations with your spouse or partner before you go into it. Know your rules and limits before you get into a situation because you can’t really get upset with your partner if you didn’t talk about.” Jody was introduced to swinging five years ago and is currently single. She loves her work as a sex coach and says if it weren’t for swinging, she wouldn’t be where she is now. To try it: If your desire is an encounter that focuses more heavily on sensuality, tell your partner you'd like to take things slower than usual the next time you have sex. Spend extra time on foreplay, and play around with trying to arouse each other by exploring one another's bodies in ways you normally wouldn't. Slowly building up to orgasms can draw out your pleasure, an add in that powerful element of sensuality that you're craving. Remember, fantasies are normal and healthy.