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First, you want to be sure to choose a material that’s body-safe. Look for toys that are phthalate and BPA-free.

It’s no secret that poop comes out of the anus. Most fecal matter sits higher up in your rectum, but anal play can bring on the urge to poop. If met with some resistance — which is totally normal — gently remove it, apply lube again, and try again. Their shape is pretty basic — usually smooth and tubular. They’re usually sold in sets of five or more, each increasing roughly a quarter of an inch in size so that you can work your way up. PlugThrusting is pushing and pulling your toy in and out over and over, while plugging involves literally plugging your anus with a butt plug and leaving it inside. Silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass — or Pyrex — are great because they’re nonporous and easy to care for. Slow and steady wins the butt play race. Get ready for insertion by lightly pressing your toy against your hole with minimal pressure. Unless you’ve got carpal tunnel, you don’t need to worry about weight if you’re choosing dilators or dildos. If you’re using a silicone toy, however, you’ll need to use a water-based lube instead because silicone breaks down silicone.

Oil-based lubes generally aren’t recommended because they break down latex, and that’s a major no-no if you’re using condoms or latex gloves on your fingers or toys.Healthline has strict sourcing guidelines and relies on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutions, and medical associations. We avoid using tertiary references. You can learn more about how we ensure our content is accurate and current by reading our editorial policy. Using a numbing agent increases your chances of going too far too fast and causing potentially serious damage.

Dilators — which you can find online — used for pleasure are similar, though the goal is slightly different, obvs. Their shape makes them easy to insert and helps to keep them comfortably contained in your anus even in the throes of ecstasy.

They come in all sorts of lengths and widths, ranging from small ( like this one) for anal training amateurs to some pretty intimating monster-sized plugs ( like this one) for seasoned pros.