The Truth About Chastity: A Tease and Denial Handbook

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The aim of this wiki is to build an archive of chastity stories. The stories have been divided into 5 sections. Men kept in chastity by women(and vice versa), both lesbian chastity and gay men in chastity, as well as anything that doesn't fit into that category such as where you don't know who the keyholder is or where there are multiple ones. The reason for wearing a chastity belt is fairly simple; it helps you remain celibate. But that isn’t what I am interested in. I want to know why somebody would wear a chastity belt. What motivates them to wear it. And do the psychological effects of wearing one differ depending on your reasoning? From what I’ve been able to gather, there are three reasons why people would choose to wear a chastity belt. Firstly, they desire to remain celibate. Secondly, they are forced to as a form of atonement. And thirdly, they wish to keep themselves from committing adultery. Chastity devices are an ideal way for partners to tease each other. What’s more, they achieve arousal and orgasm denial, which is the main goal of chastity. I believe having a “lifestyle” keyholder, a platonic friend or ex-girlfriend, is the best option, and not only because it’s free. I think it is just a better experience, closer to what men in relationships enjoy from having a wife or partner as their keyholder. But, if that’s not an option for you, there are professional ladies out there willing to hold your keys for a fee.

Many people wear chastity belts simply because they wish to remain celibate. This may be motivated by religious or personal beliefs about the sanctity of marriage. Perhaps it simply stems from a disinterest in sex and a desire to protect oneself from threats that would otherwise compromise one’s chastity. Either way, wearing a chastity belt for this reason generally brings about it a sense of calm. Aside from any religious connotations that may contribute to the feeling, the calm is likely due to the fact that the wearer no longer has to worry about sexuality in its entirety. It no longer concerns them, and they’re free to devote their time and mental resources to other things.

The psychological effects of wearing a chastity belt explained

It's a top-notch item,'' he says, staring at it. ''Unusual. It's, ah, amazing that 'they' keep coming up with innovative things - even in 2012. That's … got to be good news for the fashion industry!'' I’ve also noticed that chaste men become more driven and therefore their level of productivity increases exponentially. If you remove distractions they focus on other things, which I find very beneficial personally. He wants to please me and will do any number of tasks that he’s set to gain a reward.

Talking through your ideas, expectations, and events with a professional will help you improve and enhance the entire experience and come out the other end a happier, healthier person (in a cage or out of it). But Don’t Overthink It Reagene, Dominic Paul (2014). BDSM & Fetish Dictionary of Kink, 2nd Edition. New York: Muze Management Publishing. p.46. ISBN 978-1-5070-3399-9.I asked my husband to make coffee for us. When he brought in the coffee, he nearly jumped out of the room. She took control right away and asked him to sit down and join us. She asked him questions about the cage and his intentions. She made it clear that he was not to interfere in her marriage in any way. There would be no sexual activity of any kind between them except related to the cage. She also made it clear that her husband did not approve and that my husband would have to respect his feelings and live with the outcome.