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Male shoes are a thing of the past and all of your shoes will be donated to a shelter. 14. Synchronize periods Week-long Trip* —You get the “getting started” activities, your choice of one (of the two) extra long assignments, your choice of three (of the seven) long assignments, your choice of two (of the five) events and as many of the punishments you would like. Since you don’t always know where you want to go, you can exchange any one of your assignments for another one. Using a permanent marker, you could also punish your sub by writing their offenses all over their body. Have them walk around with it for the rest of the day. Force your sub to wear a hollow butt plug, then start pegging. If they’re not trained to wear one large enough yet, finger them with cold hands instead.
Punishments can be corporal or reflective. Both work well, you need to figure out with your Dominant or submissive, which is best for you. Either way, corrections of missteps help deepen the connection between you and help strengthen the relationship. The Dominant can be more affectionate and the submissive can be more pleasing. Really, it’s for the submissive’s own good. The punishment comes in adding days to their release date, or even being teased or milked while in the cage. Using a chastity cage as a male is the ultimate form of submission. It’s not for everyone, but this could be a major turn-on if you love being submissive. When it comes to BDSM play, it’s easy for things to go too far off the deep end. And as a result, it may end up hurting your partner.Verbal rewards- Personally speaking, a “good girl” or “princess” will put me into the happy I want to serve my Dom place faster than anything else. Things they find pleasurable- The Dominant should find out things that submissive would like to try or things that she really likes and give her more of that as a reward Maybe it’s something as easy as allowing her to masturbate while taking a hot bath or as elaborate as a spa day being pampered. Be creative with this one. Whenever I allow you to have a sissygasm, you will clean it up. And if one of my studs cums in my pussy, you will also clean it up. I will banish my sissy. During which time, since I know what a slut she is, I’ll give her to a number of my friends. She will have call each of them and follow their commands, just as if they were my own. Gifts- Gifts do not have to be extravagant. They can be small. For example, maybe the submissive likes chocolate, coffee mugs, or makeup. You can get her one of these items and present it to her when she does as you ask or complies with a rule that has been difficult for her to follow in the past.
Caning- This type of spanking happens when the blows are delivered by a thin cane made of rattan across your behind. The cane can be a single rod or a bundle. You could even ask your sub what punishment they would want during roleplay. Or you could go the “Jigsaw” route and give them some options. I was up at 6:00 AM yesterday, dressed and ready for my assignment, and 24 hours later I’m tired, I’m wet, I’m in desperate need of a shower, and I’m ready for this week’s assignment to be over. I’m just crossing my fingers that I can get off this easy for next week’s assignment as well. I can always hope, can’t I? There are two different elements at play here. One is discipline and the other is punishment. How are they different, you ask? Don’t they go hand in hand? Yes and no. By definition discipline is to train to act in accordance with a specific set of rules. This is like going to the gym when you are training for a race of some sort. Punishment is a consequence of breaking a set of rules that have been established. Think detention for being late to school. Two sides of the same coin that work together for the best desired outcome.
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Again, be sure you cover any suspicious behavior with an excuse so you avoid involving the public in your kink. Don’t go overboard with this – you don’t want to humiliate them. You want to make them look slightly unusual. Make them last a little fast for a day. This won’t hurt them or make them ill but will be uncomfortable and annoying. The desired outcome is to have a healthy relationship where you both feel safe, happy, and cared for. By following rules that are set by the Dom, the submissive can relax and trust that they are taken care of. When the submissive complies with the rules, the Dominant feels proud that he is able to have been given the gift of submission. The Dominant then feels accepted, desired, and confident like the Master they are. Power Play Spank your female sub until she’ll be red for a while. Go to the beach with her in a revealing bikini.
If you want this to fit in the humiliation category, make them crawl like animals instead of walking. When you’re on the receiving end of this type of punishment you may be asked to count the number of strikes. Counting aloud can really drive home the importance of the rule and the consequence for breaking it. Doms should do BDSM play purposefully. So, know that any out-of-left-field actions can easily damage a person’s trust in one way or another. There are many physical types of punishments and those are the ones we typically think of. And while impact play can be a part of your BDSM relationship, the Dominant shouldn’t push the submissive with corporal punishments that push them beyond their limits. Safe words can be used during punishment if they are needed. The Dominant shouldn’t use punishment in moments of anger and they should remain in control. BDSM is all about embracing a person’s inner kink and fantasy. At the same time, it can also be too much to handle at a certain point.
Is one of you into golden showers, and the other isn’t? Force the sub to have one if they don’t like it. If they prefer to receive and not give, force them to give you a golden shower. There are lots of Bluetooth and internet-controlled long-distance sex toys available today. Some are small and discrete and can be worn in public. Use the sub as a footrest or chair in public – if anyone asks questions, tell your sub to laugh and say they lost a bet. These are always done with her standing in the middle of the room, her panties around her knees, and while she’s bent over holding her ankles. Not only must she endure the punishment spanking, but she has to keep the panties at her knees.
In just over two weeks I will be helping Stacee Skye go on KDPi Sissy Spring Break, and this year you again have the opportunity to go along. (General membership in The Institute is not required.) In addition to cross dressing punishment, this year’s activities will include toilet training and diapers along with the constant threat of public humiliation. Ben-Wa balls aren’t as much fun for doms as are controllable sex toys, so they’re not great for the date-night scenario. But making your spouse wear them during an errand can be uncomfortable and embarrassing. Sometimes, they work and can improve the overall experience of the sub. And sometimes, they can ruin the whole thing just like that.Clothes- Find something that you like her to wear and surprise her with it when she is following a rule. You could start with lingerie and tell her that she will get the complete outfit as she continues to comply with the rules. Whichever way you choose to do things, make sure you discuss them in advance so you always remain Safe, Sane, and Consensual. In fact, we may even go panty shopping at the mall. I will tell the nice sales lady that you are in the market for some new panties. 10. You will do all the housework No clothes are allowed at home for as long as you decide. If you need to go into the public, limited clothing is allowed – but perhaps with one of these rules:
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