My Dominant Lesbian Girlfriend: Lesbian Romance and Domination

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Our projects include movies, books, classes, podcasts, and NFT art collections, as well as physical meeting spaces such as Cathexis House and the Temple of the Dark Goddess, and their virtual counterparts being built in the metaverse for our growing online community. We are also working in collaboration with related projects like a FemDom museum and archive that is the repository of historical FemDom publications and artifacts. There are definitely full-tops (also called a stone top, or sometimes stone butch), and there are full-bottoms (also called stone bottoms or pillow princesses). Switches are considered sexually compatible with anyone, top or bottom, although they will probably get the fullest experience if they are with someone who complements their own preferences. That is, a switch who prefers to evenly top and bottom will do best with someone the same; a switch who prefers to top will do best with one who prefers to bottom; and, likewise, one who prefers to bottom will do best with one who prefers to top. One of the main reasons guys enjoy being Doms is that it lets them be more selfish in the bedroom. They get to dictate what happens, and a lot of guys find that power thrilling. To find out if you’re one of them, let’s try a little thought experiment.

You should also discuss other aspects, like whether or not you’ll be using contraception, what kind of tools/toys you’ll be using, and how you’re going to make sure everything is as safe as possible.

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The main thing that all Doms have in common is that they’re trying to evoke a sense of power and authority over their sub. That’s the basic idea, and that can be achieved through a whole lot of different elements. Don’t be nervous or insecure; be proud of your kinks and enjoy yourself. This is important both inside and outside of the bedroom. If you’ve decided to broach the topic of dominant sex with someone, don’t mumble something awkwardly under your breath, take a leaf out of Mr. Grey’s book, and openly declare ‘I’m a Dominant.’ How you train your sub is up to you. Whether you rule through rewards or punishments comes down to what you and your sub prefer and the kind of power exchange you’re trying to act out. 8. Experiment With Impact Play It doesn’t necessarily have to be as extreme as tying someone up and flogging them. It might not even include any traditional elements of BDSM-style dominant play. Something as simple as pinning your partner’s wrists down during sex is still dominance, and words and facial expressions alone can be enough dominance for some partners. You’ll need to talk to your partner about how you’re going to carry out those power roles in your everyday life and set out expectations. You can’t completely deprive your sub of agency or power, so you might have to ‘tone down’ the roles you usually play in the bedroom.

type":"media","view_mode":"media_original","fid":"605993","attributes":{"alt":"","class":"media-image","height":"430","typeof":"foaf:Image","width":"625"}}]] The sub is not under the Dominant’s coercive control. They are an equal member in the power exchange. That means that BDSM and kink and are all about negotiation. "The discussion you have before play is the place to express boundaries you both have, your expectations, and to set the stage for consent," Chiaramonte says. "This helps create healthy boundaries before entering a dynamic."Power dynamics exist in regular vanilla sex too. There’s always a top and a bottom; a ‘less-powerful’ and a ‘more-powerful’ participant. With D/s sex, we just take those roles and dial them up so that the dominant partner is even more dominant, and the submissive partner is even more submissive.