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PEGGING for BEGINNERS and EXPERTS

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The first stop on your inaugural pegging journey is to locate the prostate, a walnut-sized gland located just beneath the male bladder. The P-spot is fairly easy to access via anal penetration with a strap-on and stimulating the prostate is said to provide next-level sexual satisfaction for him, and fun taking the reigns for her. But resist the urge to plough straight into your lover's anus without pre-heating the oven first. Start small and work your way up to the main event: The key to a comfortable pegging session is generous amounts of lube. Application isn’t a one-and-done situation. You’ll likely need to break out the bottle several times during anal play. Try different positions You may want to take a warm bath or shower together first, spend lots of time kissing, caressing, and whatever else gets you juiced up. A good tip is to size down, especially if you’re a beginner. “You might be looking at it and think, That’s so small! But if you’ve never tried anal or penetration before, definitely start off smaller than you think,” she says. Basically, don’t go big, go home, and then realize that it’s too big.

When it comes to pegging and penetrative sex, there are two main styles of harnesses: underwear and strap-on. Kink Factor – if you were to think embarrassing, acrobatic intercourse is enjoyable and place the PLAY in intercourse play choose a posture having a 10/10 kink element. Couples that enjoy dominant/submissive encounters or difficult intercourse will appreciate these. When you're ready to peg, you will need a strap-on dildo and harness. If you can, buy your first harness in real life rather than online so you can try it on. Some harnesses are strappy leather and sexy as hell, such as the Minx Harness from Aslan Leather. Others are more practical, such as the TomBoii Boxer Briefs, which are ultra comfy and can hold a dildo in place like no one's business. Go with whatever works for you and your partner's desires. I also know he uses it when he is alone and I am not there for whatever reason, it is one of his favorite sex toys and one of the reasons I am sure that agreed to start using a strap-on kit because he knows the potential of the orgasm from the P-spot. Strap-Ons Are Unisex For A Reason Speaking of, don’t forget grinding. “Speaking as a bi woman, I can say people of all genders forget that penetration doesn’t just have to be going in and out and pounding away,” says Spencer. “Roll your hips and grind that strap.” 9. Experiment beyond penetration.I recently read an article about pegging, and I think it could be really hot to explore together. I’d love to send you the article and talk about it after. What do you think?” Also, if you’re using a strap-on to experiment with anal play for the first time, there are ways you should prepare, which you can read about here. And no matter how you plan to use your strap-on, lube is always a good idea (just make sure it’s compatible with your dildo of choice—silicone lube degrades silicone toys, and oil-based lube can damage latex condoms, so water-based lube is likely a safe bet). Beyond that, there are a few important things to know about safety and partner communication before using a strap-on together, and you can find those pre-sex tips here. 2. Wear the strap-on around before using it.

Pegging "doesn't magically change your sexuality," said nightlife entrepreneur and former professional dominatrix Venus Cuffs. "The goal is to have fun with each other and safety, preparation, and communication allow you to focus on pleasure and enjoying yourselves together." When you and your S.O. are on neutral ground (read: not the bedroom), Jean suggests the following formula: Introduce the idea, explain why you’re intrigued, and ask a question. It really helps if the first time you wear your strap-on isn’t during sex. You should give yourself time to get familiar with what it’s like to wear a harness. “It’s going to feel weird at first,” Ashley Cobb, founder and host of Sex With Ashley and sex toy reviewer, tells SELF. “Wear your harness around the house as you do non-sexual activities, such as washing dishes or watching TV. The more comfortable you are with it on your own, the easier it will be to use it with a partner.” 3. Watch videos of people using strap-ons. Make sure there is ample communication throughout! Finding a comfortable pace, depth, and rhythm will only enhance your experience. If anal stimulation is new to you, try some anal training exercises first. The goal is to train your anus to relax during receiving so that the experience is enjoyable. And once again, be sure to have lots of lube handy, seriously! That means that no matter the gender dynamics in your sexual partnerships, pegging is an option. Why Might Someone Want to Try Pegging?

Don't be afraid to add a bit of role play to your pegging party. 'Personally, as a submissive woman, I enjoy pegging because it gives me a chance to be a different person,' says Makarewiz. 'I get to play a character in the bedroom that I'm usually not. Sometimes it is a challenge but it gives me that excitement and I let myself and my partner see me in a different role and he loves it! It is a mind play.'

There are many anal toys made with beginners in mind, and we've rounded up some of the best. Per Zachary Zane's advice, you should start small and consider thin, silicone toys, or relaxing tools like prostate massagers (just because women don't have prostate glands, doesn't mean they can't enjoy these). In a similar vein, Vanessa Smith recommends anal beads, plugs, and training kits made for beginners. Other than making sure all partners are aware of how to physically prepare, remember that there is a major emotional component to the sex act, especially if it's someone's first time. Make sure to communicate beforehand about both of your desires, expectations, and fears. "When it comes to pegging, even though that dildo is not part of your anatomy, you are still inserting a part of yourself in someone else, and that’s extremely intimate. There’s a great responsibility, because you are entering them," Domina Katarina says. All kinds of sex are better when all parties are practically begging for it. So, don’t go from zero to butt sex. Start with kissing, hand hanky-panky, and oral. Move on to anal massage and anal fingering Anal play can also be enjoyable for people with vaginas. “The anus has thousands of sensitive nerve endings concentrated around the opening and the outer part of the rectum,” mentions Boyajian. “Stimulating this part of the body, paired with the excitement of doing something ‘taboo’ can allow those with vaginas to orgasm fully.”It's worth trying to locate the prostate with a lubed up finger first, to ease everyone in and so you know what to aim for. I apply water-based lube and slip it in, press the button, and cycle through the patterns and vibrations whilst performing oral sex. It feels incredible to him and it really helped him relax in that area.

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