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Demonstrate you are a strong woman and have your own things you're working on. By having goals you're making a strong statement in life - you're showing that no one is more important in my life than me. It shows you respect yourself and want to better yourself. However there were some good advice in this book. The author talks about controling our feelings and actions. A chapter about fixing men was very informative. I liked a chapter about confidence as well. Besides, men don't mind being used for sex." I get that we're supposed to be all gal pal real talk here, but screw this. I may not be able to finish this. There is something totally wrong with this book which is the objectification of both men and women ,men as sex-starved animals who want to use women as sex toys and here comes "The power of the pussy" which as the author puts it you got to use sex as a weapon against men .This is Bullshit!! Kara King's controversial dating and relationship advice book The Power of the Pussy shares twelve powerful secrets that will transform any woman into the type of strong, desirable woman that can effortlessly obtain what she wants from men; including the love, respect, and relationship she desires
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Everything about you – life experiences, accomplishments, looks, and personality – is completely unique. Start thinking of yourself as a prize to be won! You are special and any man that wants to be with you is going to have to prove he’s worthy of your time. Oh no, and now she's mentioned working on this book for three years of "grueling, disciplined, hard work". I almost feel bad... good thing she taught me to control my emotions. They want a woman to give in easily, because ultimately that's what a guy wants. Once the sex is complete, the girl disgusts a man. The women they really want is the one that rejects them, the one that makes them wait for it, chase and work for it. Men fall in love with ladies. Men are like little boys with their toys, make them wait, earn it, prove that they deserve it and then they'll cherish the toy once that get it. Uses "we" constantly like we're on the same team, but in the next sentence is hating on women everywhere or amounting all women to one category. "You're an idiot now, but just wait until I educate you!!!"
Oral sex should be even harder to get than normal sex. "I don't go down on guys, I only do that when I'm in a deep and committed relationship with."
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Obviously marketed toward a specific audience. One that has no respect for themselves, nor does the author for them. Control your emotions when meeting a new guy. Guys hate it when they can't see into your head, if he can't figure you out, he'll work harder. Men only want you when you don't want them. It's all about the thrill for the men. Men want to hunt. The author equates the worth of a woman to the fact that she has a vagina and men want to get inside it. There is nothing else in her book. How we perceive ourselves is completely up to us. When our self-esteem is low, we’re choosing to let other people tell us what we’re worth. When we love and value ourselves, others will too. One of the reasons why dating is difficult is because men and women can be so different. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it just means that our brains aren’t wired the same way.
I will never be okay with "ha ha" or "mwa ha ha" being used unironically in a book. Thank god I didn't pay for this. There are lots of really good information and I think that if the author presented it differently and if she wasn't so concentrated on telling how good it is to use men, this book would be much better. Note that I went into this book intending to take it seriously and that did not last very far past the introduction. This is not a review so much as my notes to myself while reading.
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Get what you want from men and have the time of your life while doing it! This book has empowered women and dramatically changed their lives by changing the way they think about men and dating, and it can change your life too!
There's sound advice in here. Don't sell yourself short. Don't compromise your principles. Don't give everything away to a man who is giving you shit in return. When he has dimmed the lights and he's trying to get you in the mood - this is a PEAK moment. Discuss your expectations - monogamy/boyfriend-girlfriend - this is your time to ask for what you want. Try and do it in a sweet and sexy way, not a passive aggressive way. Basically say what you want without being the one to ask. The main reason this book has two stars rather than one is because it does contain some good advice within all the contradictions and the jargon. The ideas of self-confidence, not being too clingy, protecting yourself, women being responsible for pregnancy, women's influence on men and more, are all great points. The most important one; controlling your emotions. Too bad that the good advice is shared with multiple destructive thoughts and advice... Don't settle for men that are unwilling to give you what you want. Men need us, we do not need them. They crave P. Their need for sex is a great weakness. The less a man gets the more a man wants. The author suggests to start dating with someone just to distract yourself from previous relationships. She calls it "Filler dates" and says "Date to distract your heart from the pain." "These are great dates you use to fill your time, mind or heart. ... You may go on a filler date because you just got dumped and can't keep you mind off your ex."
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