Mean Jean: Amateur Dominatrix

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Many dommes begin in a house to get a feel for the profession and build their skill/clientele base, often working as a submissive before they move “up” to switch or straight domme. Thepointisthatthissceneisripeforexploitationofthevulnerableandencouragesfull-blownpsychologicaladdiction. Whenevershewasdescribingsomeofthecuckoldingscenariosanddynamicstome;shesaidsowithakindofsavagedelight.

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In NYC, the police have been busting dungeons left and right—even the “nice” ones that minded their Ps and Qs with regards to legality. I'msureamajorityofsubmissivesaresensiblewiththemoneytheyspendonthisandarealsocapableofvotingwiththeirfeetforabetterqualityofservice. Idon'thavethisfetishassuch;butIcanneverhelpbutrespectsomeonewhohasmasteredsomethinganddoesaparticularjobwithahighlevelofskill,whichshedoes. Enjoy the largest amateur porn community on the net as well as full-length scenes from the top XXX studios. I don’t think I’ll ever leave “the industry” behind entirely—I have a dream of opening up a St James Infirmary on the East Coast one day, for one thing.

Most of my friends know, most of the people at my college knew, and I am planning on telling my parents once it’s safely in the past—like, I don’t know, on my wedding day, or after I have a graduate degree.Although I can usually leave work and feel back to normal by the time I’m done, I do need space in-between sessions to decompress. Superficially, a typical working day: get to the dungeon half an hour early, hang out with my mominatrix (she’s more of a mom than a madam), set up the room, do a session, clean up the room, hour break, half an hour to set up the room and fix my hair, repeat. Nottomentionthatifamanweretodothishewouldprobablybearrestedfortargetingvulnerablewomenforfinancialexploitation,consentornoconsent.

A lot of the real “perks” come in as you get more experience and build up a clientele base—this takes, of course, an enormous investment of time and money. That night was so much fun that the threesome decides to have play parties monthly, with Dave being the slave.Also, a dark dark sense of humor and wonderment at the beautiful variation of human experience is a plus. I want to emphasize that my background and my experiences in sex work are really, really individual: I am someone who has never gone hungry or had to worry about getting her children taken away from her or felt coerced because she had no other options.

Are you a sadistic, leather-clad dominatrix looking for your next victim, one whom you can take their wanton desires and fantasies and turn them into fear, despair, and regret?So there’s down time no matter what and it can takes a surprising bite out of that golden-looking hourly rate. You can change your choices at any time by visiting Cookie preferences, as described in the Cookie notice. These successful dommes also put in a lot of time raising their profile by putting in time at parties, at conventions, on domme boards and networking. At the very least, you will be asked to do this, and the rate you will be offered to do this will be much higher than for the “easy” stuff like foot play.