Explicit Erotic Sex Stories (4 Books in 1): The best collection of stories to explore your sexual fantasies and apply them with your partner or lover!

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Or maybe instead of thinking about someone else, you'd simply rather use your imagination during partnered sex to transport you both to a setting or scenario that heightens your arousal even more. Sure, you could keep this all in your head, but sex is about sharing. What better way to share your sexual self than to let your partner know what you think about that helps you cross the finish line? You can tell your partner about your fantasies, or push play on some erotic audio during your next session. Not for nothing, it's only relatively recently that women have been able to express more freedom and choice around sex, thus learning to ask for what they want in bed. So dreaming of a little same-sex action may be more about that liberation than sexual orientation—or it could be about both. "Gender fantasies might suggest longing to break free of the social obligations placed upon us by gendered restrictions," explains Darnell. If you’re one of those interested parties who has never done it before, you might want to start with smaller toys first and talking with your partner about the possibility of douching. Sensation play

So don’t continue to repress your sexual fantasies. Instead, tell your partner about your sexual fantasies, and give them a shot as long as you are both willing to do so. Don't take our word for it, though. There's science to show exactly how real the effects of a healthy erotic imagination are. Nancy Friday’s book was pivotal in that it took sexual fantasy from deniability into social acceptance. Her prologue is a personal account of the challenges of writing the book in the face of society’s repudiation, men’s disapproval and individual women’s guilt. Friday’s first foray into the exploration of women’s fantasies was to include them in a chapter in a novel she was writing; her publisher’s abhorrence at the idea and his assumption that any woman who fantasised was a ‘sexual freak’ persuaded her to stop writing and consign the novel to a bottom drawer. Audio erotica can be a great place to start if you don't want to take the training wheels off yet to explore sexual fantasies of your own making. Unlike visual porn, audio erotica still exercises the muscles of your erotic imagination, asking you to fill in the details and paint the full picture. While we always recommend Dipsea, there's also plenty of free ways to try audio erotica like r/gonewildaudio and Girl on the Net.

If you've ever had sex as a guest in someone's house, you know that the thrill of getting caught can make your romp seem even hotter. And 57 percent of women fantasize about taking things even further by having sex in a public place, according to the research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. "There's a sense of liberation and empowerment in fantasizing about having an audience and the idea that you sexually excite others with your performance and arousal," says Bromley. For Julia,* her secret fantasy was one she summarized neatly and yet left so much to the imagination: “Surprisingly, it’s not just hot guys that turn me on but hot gay guys in action — and I’m a straight girl,” she wrote to me in a private message on social media. While Julia was hesitant to tell me more about this turn-on, and by extension sexual fantasy, Glamour did explore this further in a 2016 article in an attempt to understand why women might be into watching gay porn. According to the test It's incredibly liberating, recognizing our own power to design the scenes and situations that turn us on."

We were having sex in the dark & I went to get on top but misjudged how close we were to the edge of the bed.Spanking, biting, and dripping hot wax are all elements of foreplay, which builds anticipation and pleasure to even higher levels before the main event. "The dynamic here usually involves control: either gaining a sense of control (usually for the person administering the pain) or relinquishing control (for the person receiving the pain)," says Levy. Oftentimes, they relate to fantasy, escapism or subverting otherwise 'negative' emotions. You might find that sex is really hot when you feel powerful, submissive, challenged, mindful, or playful," she said. "You may also find yourself aroused by feelings that you don’t naturally associate with pleasure, like jealousy, inadequacy, fear, and even humiliation can be exciting." Jess O'Reilly is a sex educator, author of The New Sex Bible, and Astroglide's resident sexologist. She explained that through each of these fantasy categories you can help identify the specific core erotic feelings that get you into a heightened state of arousal. They then would want the person to follow them out to then have hot, heated, and passionate sex with no words really exchanged and definitely with no strings attached. Awaken your sexual desires by trying out some of the most common female fantasies. Surprise him and reveal him what you'd really love to try in bed tonight!

If you're a kinky sex novice then bondage may sound like a bold start, but being tied up can involve anything from ropes and harnesses to simple silk scarves or even your dressing gown belt, so don't be afraid to experiment with a bit of light bondage - provided it's easy to escape. For this type of sexual fantasy, the woman wants to be out somewhere, see a person who they are intensely attracted to, exchange the look, and to then walk out of wherever they are. The 2016 study, which was published in the journal Sexual and Relationship Therapy, recorded the sexual functioning of 27 women over six weeks. Half read self-help books, and the other half read erotic fiction. The result? Both groups made equal, statistically significant gains when it came to: For as women walk into our consulting rooms, they bring not only their current presented problem, but also a whole context of dreams, hopes, concerns and anxieties about sex. They also bring the inherited and transferred dreams, hopes, concerns and anxieties of their mothers, their grandmothers, their daughters, and of the society in which they live. Awareness of female sexual fantasy can surely give us deeper insight into this entire arena.Another fun game I play with myself is based on the idea of “sexual archetypes” that I heard about on Sex Nerd Sandra’s podcast and LOVED. The idea is that we can take on different internal personas that represent different facets of our sexual nature. It’s not exactly like role-playing or cosplay (thought that stuff is awesome too, and it could definitely go there!), but more about figuring out an energy system around a sexual persona. I have several sexual personas that I love to play with in my mind. In the end, what you do with your erotic imagination is up to you. You can share it if you'd like — or keep it all to yourself. That’s what’s so great about sexual fantasies you cut from your own cloth: They’re all yours, and no one else's. Fantasizing about being dominated doesn't imply that you're weak or that your partner is superior to you, though. "Fantasies involving power play may speak to a desire to gain or relinquish control regarding our private lives, work lives, or role in society," says Darnell. "Power dynamics in an erotic context create such sensorial arousal."

Similar to role play, cosplay is where you dress up as a spesific character rather than assuming a more generic new identity like doctor or school teacher. With power play it's also always important to factor in safety, consent and aftercare, so before you get started don't forget to factor in the following points: ✔️ Safety first Finally, the survey looked at the most sexually adventurous areas in the UK and found that Cardiff is the most sexually open city, with 85% of people trying at least one sexual fantasy, closely followed by Birmingham with 83% and Liverpool with 78%. Blair suggests that, while exploring sexual fantasies in your mind, try to distinguish between when you're having a reaction versus a judgment to a certain scenario. Judgments often come from values imposed on you by something or someone else, while visceral reactions can be an indication that your mind wants to explore it further — especially if it's something your never thought you'd be into.A sexual fantasy that women would almost never want to talk about, even with their partner, is the desire to masturbate while their partner does the exact same. While this fantasy is somewhat impeded by the pandemic, you could start to lay the groundwork by browsing dating apps together and starting conversations with people who might want to meet when that’s allowed again. Gender-bending