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22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome

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No matter how much you know about Asperger’s there will always be situations where your man is so insensitive that it shocks you.

Read: Networking Tips They Didn't Teach You in College, and finally learn how to get your business card into the right hands. Provided you still love him, you will probably want to do something to pique his interest from time to time. For a few healthy (and satisfying) suggestions, read Your Favorite Cocktails Made Healthy and Cocktails Under 200 Calories.From the Foreword by Maxine Aston, author of The Other Half of Asperger Syndrome, Aspergers in Love and The Asperger Couples Workbook. Just like you, she, too, wants to spend time with her friends or have a calm evening reading her favorite book. Through therapy and counseling your AS male can learn that there are ways to behave that will ultimately benefit both him and you.

She will be better off being gentle and persistent, for, if she comes on strong like a wave, she’ll only break herself upon his immovable frame time and again until there is nothing left of her and she is spent.

She talks with humour and honesty about the quirks and sensitivities that you may come across when getting to know your partner. Some with AS say that their mind and body involuntarily “shut down” after too much social contact, pressure, or overstimulation. Even if he doesn’t mind hearing it, he might never say it back—AS males are more comfortable demonstrating their feelings through actions, not words. Diagnosed men are much more likely to take at least half the responsibility for difficulties and are less likely to see her questions or words as attacks and criticisms.

If you remain calm, you will have a greater chance of him hearing you than if you get upset and confrontational. Maxine Aston ISBN 978 1 84310 253 3 Asperger Syndrome (AS) can affect some of the fundamental ingredients required to make a relationship work, such as emotional empathy and communication.Be Happy For (And Not Jealous Of) Your Friends, and 13 Things Your Highly Sensitive Friends Wish You Knew About Them.

This works initially in the relationship but over time, due to the neurological impact having AS will cause, the woman may start to feel her empathic ways are not being reciprocated. A subscription to something that arrives at your door— magazine, clothes, coffee of the month, a curated book collection, or even household supplies. com Copyright © Rudy Simone 2009 Foreword copyright © Maxine Aston 2009 Illustrator copyright © Emma Rios 2009 All rights reserved. When the incident is over and you are both calm, ask him what he meant or what his perspective was at the time. No matter how much your AS male loves you, there will be numerous times and ways that he cannot connect with you.If you were married to another and divorced, he may also take that as an inevitability in all your relationships, including the one you share with him. If he ignores what you say, gently remind him that you listened to him talk about his day, and that this is what people do for one another. No part of this publication may be reproduced in any material form (including photocopying or storing it in any medium by electronic means and whether or not transiently or incidentally to some other use of this publication) without the written permission of the copyright owner except in accordance with the provisions of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 or under the terms of a licence issued by the Copyright Licensing Agency Ltd, Saffron House, 6–10 Kirby Street, London EC1N 8TS. Also, once a certain level of trust has been severely breached and has left that indelible mark it may be next to impossible to mend the rift between you. It gives them time to process the words, without getting confused by all those non-verbal things that are a distraction.

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